Asking a girl out at uni?

Hi,

I'm currently a third year at my university and looking to ask out this girl. To put it in perspective i'm 6'2 very muscular and good looking, but im not up myself. I play sports for my uni and i would say a lot of girls are keen for me and i have slept around a little at my time at uni. I've fancied this girl since my second year i have noticed she has checked me out a few times as i tend to stand out a little in a crowd. I have approached this girl a few times on nights out and she doesn't seem the sort of person that flirts a lot with boys etc. I've added this girl on Facebook when we've only spoken to each other on drunken occasions and she still accepted. I really do genuinely like this girl and i want to ask her out before my third year at uni ends and we both graduate. This girl is from the same area as a friend of mine hence i know a little about her from him. This girls pictures on Facebook gets quite a few likes from some big boys at the uni but they are a bit of an arse and I know she is not keen for them as she comes from a good background such as myself. I dont enjoy going on night outs when i know she isn't there and when she is there I get very excited. I attend all my lessons on campus just hoping that i would bump into her. This girl travels a lot she seems really well off, however my friend did say she 'loves the attention she gets from boys like myself'. It seems that a lot of girls would dream of me asking them out, but i dont know why im afraid of this girl. On nights out when she's there and a girl hits on me I literally show no interest in the girl as the girl I fancy may be looking. Ive never asked a girl out before and im afraid to ask her. I really dont know what to do and im seeking for advice on what to do. I think this my first crush which must have come very late as im 21.

Cheers (apologies for being up myself but i really wanted to put it into perspective)

Hello! What you are having right now is normal. As you describe yourself you are adorable, so what is stopping you from going near to her. Introduce yourself to him in a nice way. Make friends with her, start with a simple hello. Look for a timing to get near her. Talk to her, you may not tell her right away about your feelings, at least she would come to know you also. Talking to her will send a message that you like her. Don't be rough at her and everything will come just smoothly.

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Hello! What you are having right now is normal. As you describe yourself you are adorable, so what is stopping you from going near to her. Introduce yourself to him in a nice way. Make friends with her, start with a simple hello. Look for a timing to get near her. Talk to her, you may not tell her right away about your feelings, at least she would come to know you also. Talking to her will send a message that you like her. Don't be rough at her and everything will come just smoothly.

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Hey, thanks for the reply
Its harder then it looks, this girl is in a very popular crowd surrounded by a lot of really good looking people who could've potentially ask her out. I dont know if they have tried and been rejected. I have already spoken to her on nights out on many occasions but it is very difficult talking to someone in which you dont really know much about them. Also I dread the awkwardness of asking this girl out, and if I do ask her out and she politely rejects im worried my friends will find out. I have to do it soon as this issue is really getting to my head and is affecting my daily life.