not cheating but...?

Hey guys...my name is lizzy and I am turning 18 next week
so....I have ALMOST dated 4 guys in my life...only one of them made it to the first date...and he 'dumped' me the same week...they all ended the same way...

person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=1]#1[/URL] : hey so...I really like you
me: I kinda like you too...wanna hang out more- maybe go on a date?
person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=1]#1[/URL] : yeah
me/person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=1]#1[/URL] : *plan date*
*a few days later...before the date we planned
My BFF: HEY...SOOOO... Person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=1]#1[/URL] told ur twin sister he liked her yesterday
me: asshole

Person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=2]#2[/URL] : hey so I really like you
me: oh...well...I like you too (little more hesitant)
Person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=2]#2[/URL] : really??? yay :)
me: yeah :) so...u busy *insert date here*
Person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=2]#2[/URL] : no im not :)
*plan date*
me: *texts OTHER friend* Hey so...Person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=2]#2[/URL] asked me out
OTHER friend: oh...um...he asked me out yesterday...I said no

Person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=3]#3[/URL] : Hey...so I think you are awesome and I was just kinda wondering if u wanna maybe go out on a date sometime?
me: yeah that sounds cool :)
Person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=3]#3[/URL] : great :) its a date then :P
me: yeah :)
*day of date was Monday...I wait for 20 min....I SEE HIM WALKING HOME WITH FRIENDS*
*next day*
Person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=3]#3[/URL] : are you mad that I didn't show up? my mum needed me home for something I am not allowed to tell anybody about it...
me: *thinking* fine ya know what it is ONE thing...I can let it go for now
him:*next day* in a relationship with *girl I have never liked*

me: hey....so I kinda like you :)
Person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=4]#4[/URL] : umm....okay...idk how I feel about that
me: its all good I just wanted to get it off my chest...friends?
Person:*a few days later* hey so...ive been thinking and I like you more than friends...wanna go out to tim hortons sometime?
me: yeah sure
Person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=4]#4[/URL] : cool....*about a day b4 the date* so.....can we not go to tims? I dont have the $
me: sure :) wanna just walk around the area?
Person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=4]#4[/URL] : yeah :)
me: *day of date* starts up conversation...he is too distracted my his phone
Person: *few days later* in a relationship with *human I do not Know*
me: um...okay why didnt you tell me?
Person [URL=https://www.loveforum.net/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=4]#4[/URL] : I didnt think you need to know

so..is it me? am I thinking too much into things too soon? is there a reason why 4 guys (the only 4 guys ive gotten close to dating) have done the same thing?