correcting mistakes possible?

hello everyone, I hope that's the right place to post it but I need some advice.

my situation: About two months ago, I met a girl while playing a game and we instantly understand each other. Since then we are talking over skype everyday (without exception ..^^) for hours long and it just seems perfect. I know that she has some sort of feelings for and knows that I have them too, but we are currently "labeled" as friends ( beacuse of her recent past) until we meet in the near future and see what will eventually happen (meeting date is more or less set already)...

Fast forward to today...Last night she more or less asked some questions/set a trap (howevrr you would like to call it) to see how I would react and It was already 2am And I was sleepy as hell and reacted pretty badly/unconveniently ( or rather explained myself very bad) which even wasnt my intention and also realized my bad choice of words shortly later on. Now today she said to me she could never imagine to be together with me based on what happened last night and everything I'm trying to say is simply wrong. We would be friends for the future but thats it (for now I think.)

After that my stomache turned upside down and now I'm feeling pretty bad with a mood for nothing and writing this topic for an advice for what I should do. Being friends for now is not my problem but wasting the chance for the future hits me pretty hard because everything seems so perfect.

My approach would be to stay calm and dont rush anything, maybe she's just too "angry" at the moment so that nothing that I say could help currently. Our meeting is still planned (since it was planned as friends in the first place) and maybe I just should stay calm and try to change her opinion over the time again and not to react rushed and regret it in the end completely...Everything seems so perfect, I never felt like this, and I don't want to give up without having a real chance first

Does anyone have another advice or maybe tips how I should react to thw whole situation, since I'm nowhere near my inner peace currently...
Sorry for possible grammar mistakes since english is not my native language

byari