GIrlfirend and ex-husband issues
Both me and my girlfriend are divorced and we have been together for 8 years. We have had one major issue the entire time that never gets solved. It's her relationship with her ex-husband. Let me give you some background and explain why I am hypersensitive to this issue. When we first met she was living with him and told me it was to save money. He would call her several times a day just to talk about nothing. She would get mad when I asked her to put a stop to this. There have been times in the past when we were being intimate that she stopped to take his call. They have 2 kids together so I get that they need to be friends and talk for the sake of their kids. I have no problem wit that whatsoever. My problem lies with socializing that has nothing to do with the kids. She talks to her ex-husband about problems that have nothing to do with the kids. Things she should be talking to me about. She goes kayaking with him all the time. She has made it very clear to me that she will not change her socializing with him for any man, including me. No compromise. If I have to work on a Sunday she has no issue going to the river with him. He is re-married and his new wife is always there but it still bothers me. If she likes to socialize with him so much why did she divorce him?? Is this weird and inappropriate or am I being overly sensitive about this?