Where is the line drawn for cheating?
So Ive been with my gf for 2 years. I even have the ring picked out. Things are great, and I love her with no end. She is the woman I know will be the perfect mother of our children and someone I can grow old with. And we have a great sex life. I really couldnt have asked for a better woman.
A few months before I met the gf I had dated a woman for maybe 2 months. That ended because she lied about being divorced when she wasnt. She was merely seperated. But we had an amazing sexual run that I couldnt figure out if it was this thing some people call chemistry or just the thrill of finally having sex after being single for a few months. I kept in touch with her only in fb. The occasional hello, how ya been, etc. Just casualness.
A few weeks ago I told her hey lets go for a quick bite to eat. The odd thing is the moment I hung up with her I got an instant hard on. I had ZERO intentions of doing anything sexual. My mind was fully set on just meeting up with someone a had known for a few years. She picked me up, we went for a bite, and she brought me back home. In her car we were just playful talking kinda like teasing but not. She told me how she started getting wet, I started getting a hard on, I kissed her on the cheek good bye, and I exited her car. NOTHING HAPPENED LOL But our bodies just wanted to attack each other!
My friend said I have no reason to continue to be friends with that woman since she was just a fling from a few years ago. And that if I went on another friendly meetup that things may not be as controlling, and things are liable to happen that may make me feel like crap afterwards. Of course I also have friends that say hey no knot has been tied. Its still free game. And then there are people that talk about chemistry and how 2 people can actually have something about them that magnetically attracts them making the basic animal instincts in us to rage out of control.
So what does everyone think about everything? Im curious about what you guys think about if its safest to stay away, your thoughts on if chemistry is a real thing or just BS, the people that think its not technically cheating since we are not wed, etc. Im curious to what everyone has to say. :-)