Whats considered Moving Too Fast?
Almost two weeks ago, I was matched with a guy from an online dating site. I was feeling really restless and antsy that night, so I asked him if he could call me, not expecting anything other than a super dry conversation that would put me to sleep. 4 hours later, I hung up. The convo was amazing, and he asked me out for that Saturday, which I said yes to. Which is out of the ordinary for me. I usually don't do phone calls that quickly, usually after a couple days of texting, and I have a two week rule when it comes to meet ups and internet men.
But I thought, Hey, I get a free movie, he didn't seem homicidal, and I wasn't even expecting to see him again. But the date went extremely well. He was the perfect gentleman. There was so much just sitting and talking, and I realised that we had so much in common, from our likes, to the special way we were raised. He asked me out again for the next day. We go get pie, took a walk, shared some kisses. Totally romantic.
Fast forward to this past Friday, he picks me up for our date, tells me that we are going to the beach. Apparently he had the entire thing planned. Hotel ready and everything. We walked in Moonlight, held hands at dinner, he even asked me if we could become exclusive, he has disabled his online profile. I said Yes!
Sex, was reaaaally good too. :/ Best I have had in....well, ever.
We spent Saturday morning together, and Saturday night together. The majority of the night we just, held each other. Didn't even talk. I've never really experienced this with anyone.
Then yesterday, he seemed quite distant. He said he had gotten into a really bad argument with his dad and he was just avoiding everyone. But when I texted him Goodnight, I got nothing.
I usually wake up to a Good Morning, but, still nothing.
So now I'm sitting here, re-thinking the entire weekend, my feelings (really antsy about jumping on to the dating site to see if his profile is back up) and just feeling like I have been duped in some way, and just, once again, Girl you really know how to pick em. :/ I also feel like I am over thinking things, and maybe this is just how he deals with his feelings, because he is a very quiet and reserved man, and he'll just pop back to being his normal sweet self, maybe?
But I keep hearing my friend's voice, who basically said he was awaiting the crash and burn. That this guy was moving too fast, and that theres something wrong with him. Basically, him saying, You Pick Dysfunction, And So, This Man Is Dysfunctional.
So my question to YOU guys is, DID we move too fast? Is this the end? Just two days of bliss, and thats it? I reaaaaaally like this one this time, and I see myself putting in time with him.
Even our FEET look alike. It just feels....right.