choosing between different dating profiles.

Hi guys,
While starting dating someone and at start, do you observe what type of love attachment are you going into?
For instance there are the secure types, the emotionally avoidant, the insecure-anxious, and so on. Basically, it states that two secure individuals match well. An insecure-anxious (prone to jealousy) and secure can also match but it needs work. But an avoidant and secure do not... because the avoidant cannot reciprocate the affectionate give-and-take that is essential for the secure type.
How do you make sure what type of profile are you dating?