didn't feel the spark? did our relationship moved too quickly?

i'm stumped.

I've been seeing this Male for almost 3 months now from social media and things kicked off great. We would see each other on every week on Friday and Sundays 6-7 hours a day. We both confronted each other that we like each other and enjoy each other company. He was throwing mixed signals, i have to say he was to kiss me, held my hand and flirted...As of last week 2 days before valentine day, i woke up with a heart broken text saying "i don't think it will work out". his excuse was that he felt we were in two different place (what does this even mean?). He also mentioned "i just didn't felt that spark"...did he lose intrest because the chase was gone? did we move too quickly?

how do we know?

ask him

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Originally Posted by Hooo! [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

how do we know?

ask him

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Lol this is the funny response. Might as well answer to all topics like that.

OP I think people get bored of eachother when meeting twice a week. You did spend good chunk of time together weekly. It gets old fast. Especialy if you were doing the same things. Best yoy could do is give him a break and dont contact him. He might start to miss you. But dont wait too long before moving on.

im being serious. sometimes you can pretty much guess the reasons
but with this mount of information...
we cannot possibly know and its no use guessing wildly

it could be anything.
maybe the guy doesnt even know himself.

well, sorry to say this, I know it's very unpleasant to hear, but maybe he just wasn't that much into you..
At first when you met, he created some image in his head about you and it was all new and exciting, but then as the time went by maybe he didn't feel that deeper connection he was looking for,
I mean maybe the attraction faded a bit and he saw there wasn't much else left..

Or maybe he just wasn't looking for such serious relationship...
Or maybe he is scared of commitment..
Or...

I don't really know, it's just a guess...As Hooo! said we can only be guessing here..

I agree with [MENTION=78360]lovemenot[/MENTION]. Chances are likely he just lost interest. It happens. It sucks when it happens to you, but it does happen. Only he would know the underlying reasons. I disagree that meeting 2x per week would have any influence on his interest in you, or that he got bored because of it. Seeing each other 1-3x per week is normal to begin with, when you're excited to get to know each other. Maybe he found someone else he liked better, maybe he was expecting to feel more with you than he did and didn't want to settle (in his mind), there's no way for us to know for sure. If you can't contact him about it, then just pick yourself up and start to look forward toward other, better things.

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Originally Posted by lovemenot [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I don't really know, it's just a guess...As Hooo! said we can only be guessing here..

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which is pretty useless indeed - yep!