My girlfriend is beyond any logic
Hi guys,
so... a few days ago I've found out that my girlfriend has booked an holiday to Greece for her and the ex. I didn't know anything about it and I've found the confirmation on Booking.com.
She told me she was going to see her ex while away for 10 days (she was going back to see her family), because they're still friends. What she forgot to tell me is that they're going to Greece together for an entire week.
I'm not even worried that she's going to sleep with him, to be honest. I think she won't do it. What is worrying me is that... she thinks is the victim here.
Let me just tell what SHE thinks about the all situation:
- She's the one who's suffering for this, because it's going to be difficult to see her ex after months. (As far as I'm concerned, she's the one who decided to see her ex. Am I missing something?)
- She's complaining with me because she'll even have to go on holiday with him! (Do you get it, guys? I'm not the one who should be mad and hurt for the fact that my girlfriend is going on vacation with her ex. I need to have pity for her, because she'll suffer far more than me by going on holidays with him).
- I told her 'if you go, I'm going away the day after and I'll come back when I feel like it'. She got upset and told me not to book the flight, because her ex might decide to not go on holiday with her... and in that case we'll go together. I mean... am I your last option or something?! If you want to go on holiday with me, do it. Don’t wait for him to cancel the trip with you. This is so disrespectful that I can’t even believe what I’m hearing.
- She got mad at me about the all situation. That’s right. She said I don’t deserve anything because she gave me 95% of her and I’m still complaining because she wants to give the 5% left to her ex. Not only I shouldn’t complain and be hurt and sad about all of this… I should also stop to pretend that I deserve the 100% from her.
Guys, I mean… what she’s doing is really upsetting and all of that, but what is not making me sleep at night is her ‘logic’ (or whatever you might call it). Why? I mean, why? Every person I told this couldn’t believe the all situation. She’s so manipulative that she turned a bad thing that she did in something where she’s the one suffering and I’m the asshole of the all situation.
Again… why?
Thank you guys!