Originally Posted by
shesjustnotin2u
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She has every reason to feel insecure and confused if you were caught red handed with lies and contributed to her insecurities. Once trust is broken, it is hard to gain back and requires consistency over time with twice the effort. Change also doesnt happen over night Cause if it did, its damn BS and fake to just make the other person happy for the time being, in my opinion. She also seems like a genuine girl who obviously loves and care about you if she's stuck with you this long. You know her best and know what type of personality she has. I think its best to give her space and take the opportunity to focus on yourself too. Maybe she does need time to sort her feelings. The space will also allow time for both of your to reflect on your relationship and whether you love eachother for the right reasons. Be patient as she was patient with you too. Continue with your daily life and routine. Whatever you do, dont jump on a rebound and make matters worse! Even after a broken relationship, time to yourself is needed and healthy.