^^^Thats true. I used to talk to this guy who was very financially established. I used to think, I wouldnt mind getting pregnant by him but he was always extra careful lol. Except one time, he asked could i take my mirena out because I had just got it inserted and I was supposed to wait 2 weeks or something. We are still friends now so it's not like that. He's like 10 years older then me and I used to think why he not married or dont have a kid by now but now I know the reasons plus he's polite but he's all about his self. But it seem like most guys I know that dont have a lot or they are not financially stable, they have a lot of kids. The one's with money dont.