I know these books are designed to get you any woman you want, but it quite simply won't.
I can tell you right now that if I were to have played many of the strategies with my current girlfriend, she would not have had me.
I know exactly the kind of person who is what you speak of. He's one of those, everybody loves him, guys. He's charming, funny, he makes people feel good about themselves, he can make the girls swoon, he's idealistic and outspoken while managing not to tread on others.
My girlfriend hated him until she got to see his real side after she essentially told me to cut the bullshit.
Once again, many of the strategies you'll read about are prime for certain situations. It's like saying: this strategy works great when you're playing basketball. But what if you're not on a court? What if you're on a golf field? Or soccer field?
Good for you for reading up on this stuff and tryin' to catch some ass, just don't expect any miracles, they may not work at all, or you may not find the favorable conditions they speak of.