Originally Posted by
ShatteredAgain
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Thank you Rowen. That's pretty much where we are - I've cut a long story very short here. No he wasn't bi-sexual when we met and he says he's not now. he's not attracted to men and if he had another long term relationship it would be with a woman. We have spoken about it and he is remorseful, even "disgusted" with himself. I can see the internal turmoil but that doesn't excuse the lying and disregard for me. We are not a "shouty" couple and as far as I'm concerned will remain friends (we've been together for over half of my life) but I feel like he has stolen my life away, everything I held dear I now question (except my daughter of course) and I simply cannot comprehend how you could do that to someone you love.