Better than the alternative.Quote:
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Better than the alternative.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bumble_bee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Something this forum's really taught is how much women hate nice guys.... That's kind of good for me because I'm not particularly nice, but I still find it a bit hard to understand. I love nice girls!
absolutely :baby:Quote:
Originally Posted by Graham Berkeley [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And you find that perfectly normal?Quote:
Originally Posted by Graham Berkeley [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm not sure that "nice" guys and "nice" girls share the same personality traits, but even if they do, those traits are more forgiveable in a girl. Most women want men who are strong, and "nice" on a man usually conveys some degree of neediness.Quote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
For me yes. Better it be that way than be married with children ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Yggdrasil [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
People stay in relationships, especially LTRs like this one, b/c there is *something* they get out of it. That is all.
If you want this gal for yourself, you need to figure out how to convince her you can give her what she wants better than her current branch(man).
Good luck getting the monkey to jump.
That is so true. They wont let go of one till they have a firm grasp on the other.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The honest truth is the more I get to know her the more of just a friend she feels. Like I find myself less sexually attracted to her and more concerned as a friend which usually kills the mood.
So there you are. Why bother getting involved in a longterm relationship like theirs? Messy.
Besides, girlfriends come and go, but real friends are much more rare. If she's a good friend, I'd not risk that unless I was VERY such she was a keeper.
I'd also add that most relationships are dysfunctional in some way. People will always complain about something, it doesn't mean that they no longer want to be in the relationship.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Unfortunately I found that there is some truth to this. Nothing stirs up those emotions harder and makes some women more affectionate than cold aggression, insensitivity and plain meanness. I've seen a few "success stories" with women that can be attribute to "My way or the highway" attitude, not taking no for an answer and destroying of the woman's sense of worth. Where as the opposite was true when someone increased their sense of worth, instead of being thankful they'd suddenly feel deserving of more and become confrontational and disgusting.Quote:
Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I found that perhaps on some subconscious level some women have a need to feel violated, victimized and unaccountable. Use their partner as a scapegoat for any whimsical bad mood or unappreciation by something or someone. Thank God not all of them are like that.
Just curious, but does she know you like her or are you one of those silent stalker type guys? If you haven't, grow a set and slyly ask her "How come we never went out?" This kinda throws it back on her because it not really asking her out but you will know what she thinks.. All she could tell ya is I don't know, or the usual line, "I don't think of you like that." There are alot of humorous comebacks to that line too. :)
No just most ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No actually I am the spontaneous and direct type. I don't ask a girl out I just get them to go and they have a great time. Never had any trouble approaching women. I haven't made a move because as I get older my conscience catches up with me with the fact she has a BF.Quote:
Just curious, but does she know you like her or are you one of those silent stalker type guys? If you haven't, grow a set and slyly ask her "How come we never went out?" This kinda throws it back on her because it not really asking her out but you will know what she thinks.. All she could tell ya is I don't know, or the usual line, "I don't think of you like that." There are alot of humorous comebacks to that line too.
All of the quintessential 'nice' guys I know are pushovers. Saying he's a nice guy is kinder than saying he's a wuss.
That doesn't mean the rest of the guys out there aren't nice. It just means they're not panty-waists.
I always think it's a bit off that the implied assumption is that if one is not a nice guy, then he must be an egomaniacal, arrogant ass.
Go for it, you generous, kind asshole. Quit being a weasel and tell her you want her for yourself.