Tuh-dah. That's what people who are respectful do. That's what I did with my past boyfriends. Always. First, and foremost. Get them to hang out with my guy friends. My recent ex boyfriend who was new to my area, became best friends with my high school sweetheart. My past boyfriends would have all my guy friend's phone numbers NOT because I gave it to him... but because they all exchanged so we could all hangout... OR THEY only hangout. It's the same with me and meeting my guy friends girlfriends. I try and make her feel comfortable. Talk to her. Get to know her. Exchange my phone number with her... and even hangout one on one with HER. If I were texting her boyfriend, I would include her in the text and sometimes they both would respond together on his phone. No shady business. No calling past a certain time (that's disrespectful), no inviting to hangout without including her name... etc. When you are close friends with someone, you want to include their significant other as well because you become friends with the two of them. It's not going to be like "Old times" and that's not a bad thing. If you are happy for your friend or care about them a lot, then you accept the change and are happy with the "new" type of friendship and hangouts. For me, I never had a problem with the change.Quote:
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