Ya they really dont...I think it makes them feel stronger. I did the same but she still said she doesnt know what she wants. Ya friends and others do provoke it sometimes....some for the wrong reasons. I generally believe mine was all about her stress. It all came down at once for her...made her depressed witch made me depressed. Thats why she said she couldnt do it. I told her I was sorry and now i know the reason why she was feeling bad and i can stop feeling depressed. but she still wanted to split saying she didnt know what she wanted rightnow. I think she just wanted to jump stright into something then got scared when it started getting serious.