That ^^^ is just a disguised "You" statement.
Read this link (courtesy of Heartisaching): ~ [url=http://www.healthyliving.org/hpc/Articles/IStatements.html]I-Statements[/url]
Then, You need to effectively communicate to him that you will not tolerate the dysfunction any longer and that things need to change or you're not going to stick around to be unhappy all the time.
You guys sound young, this is likely not going to be your last relationship so if you're not happy with him then leave and read some literature on how to communicate or, chill and read it while you're still in the relationship and learn while within. Just know what you want and if it's too much to bear his indifference then say ciao, grieve the end of the relationship and when you're healed, pick someone who you can reason with.
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There you go changing your story yet again.
Good luck, read books on how to resolve conflict and the art of communication and if it doesn't work with him you'll be all that more educated with the next one.