Dear YournameisJesus,
…Just when I started to get Bobtropolis to come to his senses ( if that’s possible at all) now I have to deal with you, too!!!
Well, if this is ALL Bobtroplis thought/felt, than I’d say it’s pretty likely to happen to anyone & if the person is mature and in a committed relationship they should RUN THE OTHER WAY as fast as they can in order to avoid possible emotianal & physical affair.
That would be a decent thing to do.
An INDECENT MAN (with a streak of guilty conscience & hope that not all faith in him is lost if only he manages to put all his wrongs right) will do the following:
PUT HIS THOUGHT INTO ACTION, WHILST KNOWINGLY HIDING IT FROM HIS FIANCE
LYING TO HIS FIANCE:
FALLING FOR A CHEATER WITHOUT EVEN KNOWHING IF HE LIKES HER, WHILST RISKING A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP AND RISKING TO HURT THE CLOSEST PERSON TO HIM:
LYINT TO HIS FIANCE REPEATEDLY AND ACTIVELY:
ACTIONING ON HIS FEELINGS-ACTUALLY PURSUING DEEPER EMOTINAL AND PHYSUCAL AFFAIR BY HOLDING HANDS ( unless you hold hands with you male friends for hours while you smoke weed)
HE GOT CAUGHT!!!! WHAT’S NEXT?
TRYING TO JUSTIFY HIS ACTIONS TO HIMSELF, THIS FORUM & PROBABLY TO HIS FIANCE BY PULLING OUT ALL KINDS OF EXCUSES FROM UNDER THE TABLE (GUILTY CONSCIENCE ANYONE?)JUST WHO EXACTLY ARE YOU TRYING TO PERSUADE?:
AND JUST WHEN WE ALL ‘’ALMOST’’ FELL FOR HIS EXCUSES, WHAT DOES HE DO???
CHEAT TO HIS FIANCE YET AGAIN:
So, dear My nameisJesus, if you can’t see what’s wrong with this behaviour, I suggest you go for a threesom with Bobtroplis and the ‘condom-mouth-girl’’. But, please make sure she can impress you by pulling out her diaphragm out of her va –JJ with a cork-opener because surely she must be more capable to be able to handle two guys (oh, maybe three including her poor boyfriend)….
I do agree on one point with you, though. His relationship is in trouble. But one has to sort out that trouble WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP, not by'' I-want-to-stick-my-tongue-in-her-condom-opening-mouth'' kind of approach.
Sp, Bobtropolis. You've made a lot of mistakes. One good thing is that you still have time to do the right thing. I hope you would have figured out what I mean by that.
Note: the post has ironic & sarcastic tone to prove the point. Nothing personal I appreciate everyone’s opinion, too.
p.s. and MynameisJesus, please don't try to justify his actions just because there is someone worse out there by saying:
''The average indecent man you describe, would not even mention this issue on a forum.
He would get married to a rich woman, cheat on her consistently and not even take time to open a thread about it on a forum ''
There is a THIRD option, you know. The kind of man that has actually and would actually NOT CHEAT to his girlfriend/wife/fiance.