I think liking someone just because they are hard to get is ridiculous, and shows they are not liking you for the right things.
If I like someone it doesn't matter to me, if anyone else likes them. Also, the more someone likes me, that doesn't make me like the person less, quite the opposite.
It's seems usually the less someone is liked, the more they like you, which is ridiculous.
I mean, playing games can be fun, but it shouldn't be what keeps you together.
I have to agree with swan on this, without love, one is only existing.
See this is what people don't understand: If you love someone, you will have so much fun being with that person that you will naturally want to spend time with them and it won't get boring or less exciting, but quite the opposite.
You tend to want to spend the most time with the person you love most.
Another misconception is that someone is certain or easy to keep - there is no such thing, you can lose even the most sure person in the blink of an eye, that's why you should appreciate your loved one no matter how available they seem, because they are not and never will be a sure thing. Every second of this incredible life is precious.