Originally Posted by
IndiReloaded
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I had to learn to accept that wanting to kill your partner occasionally is perfectly normal. :D
Another lesson, fairly recent (last 5 years), is that sometimes one must make people unhappy to get results. And that, even tho the end outcome might be correct, one still needs to apologize/make amends for the disruption. Its not standing on principle, b/c that would mean arguing about the 'rightness' of your actions. I mean swallowing the ego on 'being right' as the price you pay for progress.
Not sure that last will make sense unless you've lived it. Oh well, do your best.