I thought we were compatible. We didn't fight at all really. He just missed the intense passionate feelings that we felt in the beginning. I was happy with our life together, but he wasn't. He felt I got too comfortable with our relationship. Shouldn't people be comfortable after 8 years of being together? I always tried to go with the flow. He worked a lot and had a few bands through the years and I wasn't a nag. I didn't demand he spend time with me. Maybe I should have. Maybe we would have maintained that intense passion he was so desperate to keep. I don't know.