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Other mysteries about men:
Why do we drink beer? Why do we like to watch sports? Why do we like to eat beef jerky?
Don't do this. It never ends well, to be putting compromising pictures of yourself out in the world. The is a HUGE risk of being sorry later.Quote:
Originally Posted by cecilia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
This is your issue, not his. It was an issue you were aware of, and tried to change through coercion.Quote:
Originally Posted by tennissqueaker3 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You were snooping on his computer. This is a form of abuse called Isolation. It's controlling behavior.Quote:
Originally Posted by tennissqueaker3 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So what's the issue? He's not throwing it in your face, not doing it in front of you.Quote:
Originally Posted by tennissqueaker3 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Again, your issue. You have problems with it due to your insecurity. You're jealous of porn ferchrissakes. It's not about you. It's not about your sex life.Quote:
Originally Posted by tennissqueaker3 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And this is you trying to use your vagina as a weapon. Be forewarned, this is almost certain to backfire on you. If you do it in your relationship, don't get all butt-hurt when he finds somewhere else to get some. I'm not saying it's right, but it's how a lot of men justify cheating.Quote:
Originally Posted by tennissqueaker3 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You should never fight. Discuss yes... if you're fighting, you're doing it wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by tennissqueaker3 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Then don't. Attempting to change him to suit you is flatly wrong. If you can't deal with it, and he won't change it voluntarily, then break up with him and be done with it.Quote:
Originally Posted by tennissqueaker3 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well I guess it works if you're with a genuine guy. I don't know- never did it with a guy I didn't love so I wouldn't know what could happen.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
One more thing:Quote:
Originally Posted by tennissqueaker3 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
How is this a compromise? He wants to, you don't want him to, so you expect him to conform to your wishes. By your own admission, he's not doing it in front of you. That's a reasonable compromise.
if it makes you feel any better whenever i've watched porn its only for the visualization. im constantly thinking about the person i only really care about ... my gf ... and just envisioning me and her, not me and some slutty bimbo on the internet...
You forgot the toilet seat and why you leave it up??Quote:
Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And you are insinuating Vash did??? *shock horror*Quote:
Originally Posted by cecilia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It can happen and no matter which guy you are involved with...'genuine' or not.
And no I'm not talking through experience....I'm a 'lady' :)
Beer, sports, beef jerky and porn are all things that guys enjoy. Leaving the toilet seat up is more along the lines of things that we don't really think about much.Quote:
Originally Posted by xxazurexx [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Don't you read? Even celebrities have their pictures outed at inopportune times.Quote:
Originally Posted by cecilia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And BTW - I have never been stupid enough - nor needy enough for attention - to put myself at risk this way.
Because we like to see naked ladies.
Porn bores me, honestly.
You know, you can program a guy to leave it down. My sisters did pretty much that with me when I was a kid haha.Quote:
Originally Posted by xxazurexx [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Not all guys like those. Generalizations are bad (not directed to you, just everyone).Quote:
Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Or more importantly, why don't women know how to operate the toilet seat? :PQuote:
Originally Posted by xxazurexx [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]