Originally Posted by
TheEvilJester
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Yeah, it certainly would be nice if she could just be honest with you. If it DID change things for her, she could have just gently told you that and it would have made it easier to move on. That is, assuming that IS the case. I can't really know that. But, assuming the "silent treatment" is intentional... I would venture to guess she probably isn't doing it maliciously. She probably isn't intending to hurt you. It's just sort of an awkward and uncomfortable situation that is hard to know how to handle.
That said, I still think your conclusion is correct. Honestly, it doesn't matter whether she is intending to hurt you or not, it hurts you all the same. Sure, you made a mistake, but you deserve the chance to learn from that mistake a move on. Would have been nice if that could have been with her still as a friend, but since it doesn't seem that is possible you are definitely better just to forget her. When it comes right down to it, if any relationship (be it as friends or more) is only bringing you pain, that is definitely a good time to start thinking about whether it is one that is really worth keeping up.
Good luck to you!