I agree...why is this such a mystery? There is more to relationships than looks. Think about it, if a person is beautiful...great for now. But in fifty years when you have woken up every morning with person, you will need some pretty serious personality/conversation/actual interest in the person to sustain such a relationship together, perhaps that's what she was looking for...a personality. So you saw a girl that was actually not shallow...and THAT turned you off to her? Wow.