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God I love that phrase...Quote:
Originally Posted by Ellynn
I don't know. She seems really nice...
I still haven't gotten ANYTHING from her. I was thinking about messaging her again to see if she would respond.
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Originally Posted by David12
Which is gonna make you seem even more desperate and more of a bugaboo then anything else. But, hey, if it makes you feel better, go for it. Just don't expect much!
I decided to message her. but its really short, I said
"Your not turned off by me because Im 20 are you?"
Nevermind I changed my message to this..
"Hey
I haven't spoke with you in awhile. You were probably turned off by my age..
Well, I wasn't trying to date a complete stranger just to let you know, you just looked familier and I thought that we can form a friendship."
This is what I wrote her, hopefully she replies back.
I've also found out something new, she is actually 17, turning 18 soon. I had a friend ask her out old she was and she said she was almost turning 18.
Anyway I hope she replies
Ooo...she lied to you. Have another friend ask her what her age is. Wonder if her response will be "16, almost 17"
Actually
I was the one who lied. I told you guys she was 18 because I didn't want you guys to think I was a child molestor.
She has told me she was 17 as well, but said she as turning 18 really soon. So I thought I'd just say she was 18 to you guys.....
I deleted my comment on her front page, because I was afraid I was going to get a negative responds...
What would be the best thing to say to her at this point?
I was completely normal to her. I will tell you guys the whole story, than maybe you will understand FULLY what happened alright?
This was my first message to her. After she commented my pics of course
Me: How old are you?
Her: Haven't you seen my profile? I'm 17 years old. It's in my "about me"..if you read it. You? I don't know you, do I? My friend said she's seen you before..
Me: You look familier to me and I never forget a pretty face..Which High school did you go to? and what is your friends name?
Her : Oh. Well, thanks. You look a bit familiar too. I go to Oakmont. Her name is Ashley alderson. She goes to Del Campo.
Me: You're Welcome
Do you mind posting me a link at Ashley Alderson myspace?
Its hard to remember every single girl in high school but, you do look familier and you say I am familier to you too eh?
Haha real interesting. We should hang out sometime.
Talk to you later
Her: you already added her, so you should know who she is. What high school did you go to? oakmont? what area do you live in?
yeah, you look somewhat familar. maybe we knew eachother in a past life?
Me: Really? well she is 16, so I definaly didn't go to high school with her.
I didn't realize I already had her on my list. My old myspace got deleted so I had to add everyone all over again.
I bumped into your profile and thought you look familier, I know how I saw you from somewhere...
No I went to Del campo high school....
I live in Carmichael
Her: oh ok. you are 20?
well, ttyl. gonna go have a smoke.
and thats the last message I got from her
To me it just sounds like you were talking because you knew a mutual person. Then she thought maybe you knew her better then you actually did. When she found out you didn't, she probably didn't give you a second thought. There are alot of people out there that add people to their friends list without actually knowing them, just to have a larger amount of friends. She might have thought this was the case.
And the fact that you didn't go to high school with this ashley girl makes it seem like your just out there stalking or looking up people. Do you actually know Ashley? And if you do, how? Is this the girl you had a thing for back in the day? If so, Ashley might have had some things to tell this soon to be 18 yr old.
A good piece of advice for you is to never pursue the friends of the girl you were crazy about back in the day. It will never work. Sorry, but thats just how it is. This girl will give them the 411 on you, and if she doesn't have pleasant memories, most of all she will talk about that.
Oh and I can understand why you didn't just post that she is 17, and said 18 instead. But jailbait is still jailbait. Make sure the girl is 18 before pursuing her.
They actually have been talking about making profiles private on myspace for every person who is under 18 to eliminate sexual preditors etc. I'm not accusing you of being one, but there is a reason for this. So, stick to someone closer to your age.
oh well,
Ashley was not the girl I liked a few weeks ago. Im not sure how she got on my list.
The girl I liked weeks ago has nothing to do with the girl I am pursuring now.
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Originally Posted by David12
Good to know. But, she probably thought you were just some random guy. Since she's not responding, that should tell u something.
Well, before you have any friends at all, everyone besides your family is random.
Strangers become friends, and sometime friends become more than that.
What im saying is, she should at least give me a chance. Hell, Sometimes I get random girls or guys adding me and I talk to them everytime they send me a message.
Anyway, you guys know the whole story as I have posted it earlier. I left a comment on her front page saying
"Hey how have you been?"
But I never got a reply, this was over a week ago, but than when some other guy message her, she replies back to him.
I dunno why I am so hung up over some girl I don't know....probably because she rejected me even before I get to know her..
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Originally Posted by David12
Sorry, but sometimes people just don't WANT to get to know someone better. It sounds like this is the case with her, especially since she responded to your friend and not you. Rejection happens! You just have to move on. You should not be depressed, but you should just feel like its just her loss.
At least find someone who's willing to give you the time of day.. They are out there, don't give up.
Yea really huh?
But you misunderstood, She doesnt talk to any of my friends. She just talks to this other guy with is likely someone she knows in real life. and other guys..
Pretty much guys that know her in real life......
I just hate rejection. Really I do. But like you said its a part of life.
I want to, thank you for the help. I know I can be annoying sometimes
Yeah sorry about the misunderstanding. But point is, shes talking to someone else. She probably knows him or something. Yeah rejection sucks! But, its just part of life. There are other girls out there, you'll find one eventually.