Exactly my point. This is a slow-motion train wreck.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Exactly my point. This is a slow-motion train wreck.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
schiesse.
well, i guess what i can do is just keep having sex but forget about him otherwise.
and OV i haven't slept with that many people at all. i've had a lot of sex but my actual number of persons is not so high.
I feel good that we have done the right thing....for some other brother out there. Man he makes you his sucker. I would love to meet him and shake his hand.Quote:
Originally Posted by alidile [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
does he really know he's made me his sucker though. that's the first "give" i've given him.
i guess by saying anything at all i gave in.
i think he's lying that he likes me anyways to be nice.
LOL OV you're such an ass sometimesQuote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
What does saying anything have to do with "giving" anything at all?Quote:
Originally Posted by alidile [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Trust me, he knows.
Thanks.Quote:
Originally Posted by DoesntMatter [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Agreed. You're only fooling yourself, here, ali.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Oh god. Okay, if you are serious about what to do here goes:
Don't contact him at all until he contacts you first. When (if) he does, see him in person and ask him what he thinks about your message. Then SHUT UP and let him talk. If he bails or is lame, collect your remaining dignity in a thimble & stop seeing this guy. You are poised to be shredded.
If you ignore my advice after asking, BTW, I'm never reading another one of your threads about this. My advice is the only thing that has a hope in hell of a reasonable recovery.
If he *does* happen to respond favourably, DON'T sleep w/him. Have a good talk w/him & then post on here to us immediately so we can give you a clear perspective.
okay, i'm not going to talk to him until he contacts me. agreed.
haven't we already discussed the situation for now though, like i feel it shouldn't be brought up again right now.
i mean he said he likes me but he doesn't want a relationship now .and i don't want a relationship right now, i just want him to like me so at some point i can say i want one if i do.
i could ask him how he felt about having that txt convo with me, but i feel that would be redundant?
i'm really listening this time though guys.
i'm sorry dear, this is never going to happen. as in, ever ever.Quote:
Originally Posted by alidile [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
the line has been crossed, there's no going back.
stay away from this lest you put yourself in a world of pain and embarassment.
Stick to it.Quote:
Originally Posted by alidile [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think you're both full of crap. You're having a relationship. You're sleeping together, for ****'s sake. What you're talking about is having a commitment, which, as far as I can see, would simply be an agreement between the two of you that you don't sleep with others.Quote:
Originally Posted by alidile [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You already spend time together beyond simply having sex. You already have an emotional connection, however either of you dance around the matter. You just don't have an agreement to be exclusive.
That's a recipe for disaster, IMO. Eventually, one of you (and I think we all know which one, in this case) is going to get really, really hurt.
I hate watching you do this to yourself, and especially hearing you act so cavalier about it in your interaction with him. I really have to wonder how you think this can possibly turn out if you aren't even willing to admit you want a relationship with him.
she's in the danger zone.
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Originally Posted by alidile [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Mistake. I'm a guy, and if you continue down this road you'll regret it. Guys love sex, many guys will do anything for it. And if a guy thinks your emotionally weak and therfore easy to take advantage of, he just might. Not all guys are like that... But really most are, I'm not. If you want to attract the right guys, be strong. Strength in a woman is very attractive, if it's not taken too far.
Don't worry, life's a learning experience. Right up until you die... Try to make the right decisions, and if you make mistakes. Don't dwell, learn from them. Regret is a terrible think, and it tends to put your mind on the deep freeze, frozen in that terrible moment. Ask yourself, why would anyone want to remain in such a moment mentally and emotionally?
Good luck.