Originally Posted by
Justsomeone22
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Craziest thing is I'm slightly in the same boat right now...I just came off a 6 yr relationship and this girl I thought was absolutely gorgeous works at a restaurant with a couple friends. So since I'm a single guy I got her number..Now I know she has a 2 year old kid. We went to high school together, so I'm in the position of yes I do really genuinely want something serious. I don't know that I want to raise another mans kid...I could do it because kids are amazing. Watching my best friend raise his daughter and my youngest sister having 2 of her own...at 23 I've been around kids constantly. Which in my previous relationship was also 2 kids involved on her families side that I spent a lot of time with. It's a sticky situation but at this point the way I look at it is this...I'm not there for the kid or anyone else at this point, I am interested in getting to know the mother and seeing what we have between us. I know the attraction is there, and if anything the sex will come which honestly isn't what my motives are. I hope that you can connect with her and really start something good. Don't let anyone say otherwise, get that connection man and see if thats what your looking for. Take it in stride from there, it's a very respectable thing to see someone raise someone else's kid. My step mother did a damn good job. Go on some dates and stuff have a good time, she's honestly probably looking for a little relief at this point anyways. Give it to her and in the meantime everything else will fall into place.