I disagree. I mean, yes, you're absolutely right that that can't be ALL there is. Chemistry is obviously very important. But asking the "mundane little facts" about the other person can make you feel more comfortable around them, and get you to the point of being relaxed and goofy so you can open up.Quote:
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I'm just saying, don't discard an encounter just because you talked too much "fact" and not enough "real stuff". It could just be a slow start, give it a chance.
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To break that mode of conversation and develop connection with the girl is a skill. I find that if I am in a relaxed, goofy, playful mood; I can break down the walls faster and have her get to know the real me.
Goofy is good.