sex without a condom is so much better but it has consequences, even if the girl doesn't get preggers, its not safe. it's a pity really that there aren't better ways. i'm a para wreck when it comes to germs or sti's so i can't do it without him having a condom ever now. i have allowed my ex without a condom and pull out and then immediately became para and couldn't allow it to happen again. It’s too stressful