I rep being a so called 'girly-male'.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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I rep being a so called 'girly-male'.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That was quite a response. Good to hear what others had to say. I think my question has been answered. The thing I was wondering about was addressed, which is basically if someone says that what she wants, what are the odds of ever going from that perspective to a serious relationship. Sounds like the odds are close to zero.
For what it is worth, and beyond the scope of my original question, I have always believed that a true frienship, which includes caring for the other person, is the basis for establishing a LTR.
Sounds to me then like a Friend with benefits is probably not likely to be a true friend by my definition of frienship.
I'm not a virgin and I am not a relationship type. That doesn't mean I am not with girls if you catch my drift.Quote:
Originally Posted by lesa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm being facetious ;).
I do catch your drift.
Whats the difference? Sex is sex, no matter when and what the paper work said when it was done.Quote:
Originally Posted by lesa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
It makes a huge difference. I am just clarifying that it was not cheating.Quote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Dude relax.:baby:
I am relaxed and it being cheating wasn't the point in the first place. It was that he has to do more work to get the same goal a simple pool boy got. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by lesa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Look. Some people are able to detach sex from love and some aren't. For many people the act of having sex with someone they do not care about leaves them generally feeling empty inside.
A fwb situation is usually when you have two people in a very close and fairly intimate relationship. They might be former lovers, they might just be friends who have sexual needs and finds each other relatively safe as a person to fulfill that.
That's what FWB means to me. I think most people confuse FWB with Booty Call. Which is basically when someone calls you up at 1 am and says, "Hey, why don't you come over and bring some beer?" You show up, you ****, you leave. You don't sleep over (unless you pass out because you're too drunk), you don't keep a toothbrush there. You're there for the sex, and then you're gone. That's it, no strings attached. If you don't hear from the person for 2 months, it's no big deal.