BF watches porn.

Ok well, my boyfriend and I had a talk. I have taken everyone's advice and took into consideration that it's not really that big of a deal. I am working on improving my appearance and my communication with him. And I never said I thought him watching porn was just as the same as cheating on me.

Usually when I'm cleaning or sweeping our room I'll sweep up a sock or something from under the bed or if I'm going through laundry to sort out whites and colors I can feel cum on some clothes. Yeah, it's gross.

But we did talk and I just told him not to hide anything from me anymore. If he wants to make the decision to watch porn, then keep it up on the computer and don't deny ever doing it. As for watching it with him, maybe I will try that out.

I've also stopped taking my pills. It's been 2 days so far. When I first told him he was upset because he hates using condoms, as do I. But the pills are just making me gain weight, lowering my sex drive, and I won't even have my fertility back for about 2 years because of the depo shot. So I'm done with any birth control.

I want to thank everyone for their input on everything. It's helped out alot.
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Originally Posted by elbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I've also stopped taking my pills. It's been 2 days so far. When I first told him he was upset because he hates using condoms, as do I. But the pills are just making me gain weight, lowering my sex drive, and I won't even have my fertility back for about 2 years because of the depo shot. So I'm done with any birth control.

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Well definitely use at least the condoms because I know a few pregnant women who thought they were infertile after the depo shot. Depo babies hehe.

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Originally Posted by elbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Ok well, my boyfriend and I had a talk. I have taken everyone's advice and took into consideration that it's not really that big of a deal. I am working on improving my appearance and my communication with him. And I never said I thought him watching porn was just as the same as cheating on me.

Usually when I'm cleaning or sweeping our room I'll sweep up a sock or something from under the bed or if I'm going through laundry to sort out whites and colors I can feel cum on some clothes. Yeah, it's gross.

But we did talk and I just told him not to hide anything from me anymore. If he wants to make the decision to watch porn, then keep it up on the computer and don't deny ever doing it. As for watching it with him, maybe I will try that out.

I've also stopped taking my pills. It's been 2 days so far. When I first told him he was upset because he hates using condoms, as do I. But the pills are just making me gain weight, lowering my sex drive, and I won't even have my fertility back for about 2 years because of the depo shot. So I'm done with any birth control.

I want to thank everyone for their input on everything. It's helped out alot.
:D

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Lol, why do you think socks are prodominantly white? :lol:

@sweetvalley26 you talk to him ? please say us what is happened

i think many pairs had this problem

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@sweetvalley26 you talk to him ? please say us what is happened

i think many pairs had this problem

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Agreed, it seems a lot of women have an issue with porn. And i honestly don't know why? Maybe it's because i'm a guy? But if my girl friend (if i had one) was watching porn. I'd be ok with it. Because honestly, it's fun to watch (or read if you like reading it like me). It's harmless.

It's a good way to explore a part of your sexuality that you'd normally try to hide. For instance, say you always wanted a threesome (your a guy). And the threesome you have in mind is with another guy and your woman.

Most woman would FREAK about this proposition. SO, most guys end up watching porn because it's a way of witnessing something they might not EVER have. I mean, i'd like to "do" a black chick, but i probably never will. So i have my porn.

Women need to get over this whole "porn = cheating" thing. We're guys, it's what we do.

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Agreed, it seems a lot of women have an issue with porn. And i honestly don't know why? Maybe it's because i'm a guy? But if my girl friend (if i had one) was watching porn. I'd be ok with it. Because honestly, it's fun to watch (or read if you like reading it like me). It's harmless.

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I can't see the issue either.
But anyway, I don't have that problem. Most of the girls that are my age watch porn themselves, and don't mind if guys do.
Besides, I would be okay with it anyway..

Reading porn? Is it still counted as porn if its not images?
They can't really arrest someone for writing a story that involves underage people.. Under the 'child pornography' laws.

A lot of people are going to be insensitive to how this makes some women feel. Some women just don't like that fact that their men are turned on by other women.

a good friend of mine divorced her husband because he would not have sex with her. this went on for years and she tried everything.

during the divorce process he admitted to being addicted to porn.

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a good friend of mine divorced her husband because he would not have sex with her. this went on for years and she tried everything.

during the divorce process he admitted to being addicted to porn.

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is there a possibility that he wasn't attracted much to her?

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A lot of people are going to be insensitive to how this makes some women feel. Some women just don't like that fact that their men are turned on by other women.

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These women need to 'get over it'... men are turned on constantly by other women... that's just the nature of the 'beast.'

A guy can't walk past an attractive woman without being mildly interested... just a fact of life.

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is there a possibility that he wasn't attracted much to her?

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well i guess that could be. although i can't imagine. she is a very attractive person and is married to a man that's knocking her up left and right. and to go years. YEARS? without sex with a woman who is laying right next to you every night.

seemed a bit strange.

I never really thought of porn being a big deal if enjoyed on occassion, but now I'm not so sure. Charlieboy (who I find to be one of the most credible males who post here) said women were stupid if they thought it had no impact on their men. Now I'm not sure what to think. Fortunately, it isn't really a problem I've had to deal with. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't like it if my man was looking at it constantly because it shows a great lack of self-control and a guy with not enough to do to keep himself busy.

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is there a possibility that he wasn't attracted much to her?

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Or perhaps that she was just that much of an absolute pain in the ass that it killed his desire to sleep with her ever again? It happens you know.

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Originally Posted by Aeradalia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

These women need to 'get over it'... men are turned on constantly by other women... that's just the nature of the 'beast.'

A guy can't walk past an attractive woman without being mildly interested... just a fact of life.

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Comment's like this make me wonder.
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But... On posts like this topic I agree that the women should just get over it because men are beasts and will never be brave enough to have lust, attraction, stimulation and desire of/for one woman. It's just too much to ask of Men. They are not capable of it. No matter how many times my fiancee has said otherwise... I just stare and him and move the topic right along. LOL!

You know why I don't have problems with it? Cause it's fake.Fake like dildos. And I think girls who have problems with this are just not confident with them selves.come one? Can't You just take a chair sit side by side with Your man and say" Oh honey,why You didn't say nothing? I would have watch it too!" And smile.Smile cause it's like Tom & Jerry cartoons but for adult guys. Unless there are no animals and kids inside it's good. Voila :)