Well maybe for you, because you are decent. The women I know crave the male slut, because male slut is popular. He is fashionable, he is fun, he validates them, he is not serious so they don't have to be scared of commitment and they want a bit of that and attention they will get having someone like that around. The women I know don't want a decent guy, the decent guy scares them with his low number of conquered women (i.e. unpopular looser) and his want of scary commitment, they want someone who will fill a hole.