My clit has to be stimulated in just the right way. I am not much of a fan of pumping the pussy with the fingers. There is just not much sensation in the vag for a random finger here and there, and ends up feeling more invasive, like a gyno appointment, rather than cunnilingus. I do enjoy a good cock tho, just if it's oral, I prefer clitoral and other bodily parts stimulated.
I think it's best when you get close to cumming that the guy does not change up his technique too much. If I'm close to cumming, it's because that technique is working. To change it is to loose the O.
