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Make it sound boring. For instance, I have a friend who actually DOES work in the adult film industry, and the way he describes it, it actually is boring.Quote:
Originally Posted by Graham Berkeley [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
What about my comment that it's a crap reason for wanting to stay with a mean-spirited cow like her anyway?
I do my best but... Its really hard to make something like I do sound boring and as things progress, god willing, it will be absolutely impossible.Quote:
Make it sound boring. For instance, I have a friend who actually DOES work in the adult film industry, and the way he describes it, it actually is boring.
Because she wasn't always this way and I keep thinking its a phase or something she can grow past.Quote:
What about my comment that it's a crap reason for wanting to stay with a mean-spirited cow like her anyway?
Well, did she start taking bitch pills or something? This, to me, sounds like hateful behavior. Look, I'm a bitch. I'm a gigabitch, but I don't speak to ANYONE in my life that way. My ex-husband pisses me off daily, but I don't say things like that to him.Quote:
Originally Posted by Graham Berkeley [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Honestly when it first started happening I was convinced it was linked to her birth control. I talked her into getting off it didn't seem to fix anything. Shortly after she began drinking (thats what she says) and now she is just seems always sower...
I know she is seeing a therapist but once in a while if we talk and its brought up it sounds like her therapist is a croc. Asking stupid things like "When you are angry where in your body do you feel it?"
So, what's not to agree with? Sounds like to me you broke up with her b/c she's crossed a boundary. You don't want her back, you didn't break up to make her change her behaviour, right?Quote:
Originally Posted by Graham Berkeley [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That's all I was saying: people shouldn't threaten breakups to get someone to change. Its not negotiating in good faith to do that, its forcing a behaviour by ultimatum. You didn't do that, so good.
She sounds like a gold digger bitch. How much money does she make?
She is in college. She pays for her $1100 rent every other month as her aunt and uncle pay for it every month she doesn't. Other than that they pay for any large purchases. She has a couple home businesses that pay for groceries and small things...
To answer your question she could easily pull in a couple grand a month if she really really wanted to with her Independent stuff alone but she doesn't typically. I don't know exact figures of cash.
you're crazy for letting her treat you like such a tool.
Well there are two sides to a story. I'm sure if she was asked she could make me sound like some horrible monster too.
My gut tells me she is young and this shit will pass. I just don't know how long I can hang on and then I feel guilty for thinking about letting go.
A couple K a month? That's only $500 a week! You guys worry about what are really tiny sums of money... why?Quote:
Originally Posted by Graham Berkeley [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I dont remember saying I worried about money. I was asked what she brought in...
You tell the truth. If they can't handle the truth it's not your problem, is it now?Quote:
Originally Posted by Graham Berkeley [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
you're crazy for hanging with this girl.Quote:
Originally Posted by Graham Berkeley [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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i feel that this whole thread is a piece of bull. this just proves my point.Quote:
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