So... I effectively ended 2 relationship today by default

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Originally Posted by soulsurvivor23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Actually it was a private message to him so only he saw it...

Anyways, as an update to this crazy ridiculous never ending saga... (and yes i know i'm immune to advice so why am I here.
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Basically after breaking up with her, amazingly she then told him every detail about what had happened, and they got back together.. Then he sent me a reply saying "she's my queen, I love her and she loves me, and she promised she's gonna be real with me from now on, so i don't care about what you did with her cuz she said you mean nothing to her. bye!"

Then, after that message made me pretty much feel like scum, SHE calls me maybe a few hours later and says that I mean a lot to her and that she wants to keep my friendship.. But that in order for us to be friends, I have to apologize and ask for his friendship too..... And that we have to be friends only from now on, with nothing extracurricular. So now i'm thinking, wow, it's crazy how that message made their relatiionship BETTER. lol. My luck with women is just rock bottom these days. I need to just start having crazy ridiculous one night stands.

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LOL! Sorry but I think that's just hilarious. I saw this coming from miles away. She really, REALLY must have put on a good act for him, not to mention overdoing herself in the bedroom that night. :lol:

Don't worry, tho. He will dump her within the month. You'll see.

Ignore her, dude.

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

LOL! Sorry but I think that's just hilarious. I saw this coming from miles away. She really, REALLY must have put on a good act for him, not to mention overdoing herself in the bedroom that night. :lol:

Don't worry, tho. He will dump her within the month. You'll see.

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It's just my emotions talking. Quite honestly, she conned him. She knew she conned him. She cheated on him and she'd do it again 10 times over (though i'm sure not with me anymore due to me telling him about it). So it's probably better for me, no matter how tough it feels, that I never ended up being in a relationship with her. Cuz if my girl cheated on me for 9 months and then decided to confess after being put on blast, that would be the point of no return for me.

Survivor, you were knowingly dating a girl who was cheating on her BF. Its rather easy to think you are somehow getting what you deserve.

Have more self-respect, young man. Is it really that hard to find a decent gal to date?

They might deserve each other, AJ. See my last. Remember, he DID know this gal was already seeing someone else. That makes him at least complicit in the cheating.

Wrong... I've known her for 9 months, I knew of him for 3 of those months... So no, I wasn't knowingly messing around with a taken woman.

My mistake Survivor, sorry. Well, in this case walking away clean seems your best bet. B/c you know being 'friends' with her will just mean she's got designs on you and, if you didn't know it before, now you do.

When this guy breaks up with her again tell the guy.....hey, I told you that you'd be digging your own grave, dude. But then again, we never learn till we experience pain.

You know her personality, so she's bound to repeat the same mistakes if she doesn't learn anything from her failures.

ok even your intention wasnt all that justified. still i think the bf had every right to know what she did. and it's girls like that give the rest of us rep. well done. indeed serves her right!

Well... the way I feel about it a few days later is that I did the right thing, but for the wrong reasons.

As for the situation that happened between herself and me prior to that message I sent, I still don't feel like i'm the one in the wrong. She was the one who was probably telling both of us that she loves us, while doing everything under the sun with me while her bf wasn't around.