Is this crossing the line?

I agree with everyone else on this subject.
As for the pregnancy... I am nervous for you.
Please take it easy until your appointment ok? xoxo

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Originally Posted by LadieNisha4u2nv [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I dont think it's something he would want to do on a regular. He said he didnt want to go from the jump. Then they paid for the dance and was pressuring him and calling him a punk and he let them get the best of him. It's like being called a punk means you MUST prove someone wrong in his world, which is something I always disliked.

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That's bullshit reasoning in my opinion. If someone calls me punk (or worse) that doesn't make me do something I don't want to do. That's just lack of self control.

That's the same reasoning as saying: Judge, I killed the guy because my friends called me punk.

I lost 'friends' for standing up for myself and my views, ethics and morals. Frankly, I don't need 'friends' like that.

I hope that makes sense.

I also would stress seeing a gynecologist or so.

Trust me Ygg, we're on the same page.

When we met, he was into fighting and all that shit. So it's engraved in his head that he's supposed to make a point once somebody makes him feel like he's a punk. That is the only thing he hasnt changed about his old ways before me, but I give him credit for giving up the other bullshit because I let him to know that if he wants to be with me he better cut the shit out pronto because I dont want to be walking down the street with my daughter and someone comes up to us and kills us because they know we are for him and people would do that. But he did stop.

I already accepted that I could have prevented it and I've learned a valuable lesson from it. We talked and talked and I of course cried and cried and kept saying how hurt I was by it and he continuously repeated how sorry he was and I told him I believed him because I know it was out of pressure and a spur of the moment thing. It's still a hard thing to grasp, but at this point in time I've got plenty other shit to worry about. It's on the backburner. He's forgiven, but I can never forget it.

Thanks for the looking out for the baby....I'll give an update on that tomorrow. Til then, we're both just hoping for the best and sticking by each other's side. I'm looking at it as an obstacle we have to overcome together.

He doesn't respect you

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Originally Posted by LadieNisha4u2nv [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

He's forgiven, but I can never forget it.

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Always forgive, never forget.

That's the best way. The real forgiving will take a while though. But I know what you're saying. You're going to try not to let it screw up the relation.

If you're both on the same page, that shouldn't be a problem.

You just take it slow and hang in there.