If my partner killed my child and had sex with my sibling (which would never happen because I don't choose mentally ill people to be with)Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I would forgive them for what they did not because they were remorseful (because this is irrelevant) but the fact of
the matter is I would not want to be with that person in a committed relationship any longer.
They broke their commitment and their vows. They murdered an innocent.
Unconditional love doesn't mean you take whatever someone does in stride and allow them to do it again.
It means you CHOOSE your partner wisely so that when you open up to them: they don't intentionally hurt you by doing so.
No one accidentally sleeps with another person: this is an excuse and a cop out to avoid responsibility.
You can accidentally kill someone IF it was truly an accident. If it was premeditated -it means good bye.
The truth is: We all have tolerance levels and they are all different.
I can appreciate the good in someone while not holding the bad in them: against them.