Thank you everyone for your advice. I understand everyones opinion and now that I am so attatched to him and moved far away I feel stuck. I guess I want to see how it plays out with him graduating in May and me working now and he did have a job the co. got downsized so he gets unemployment benefits. We are getting an apt soon. He is nice to me and cares for me alot. I know Im young and cant see the things everyone else does or I just dont care. If he is using me then why wouldnt he have just stayed with his ex who had expierience and money and a house? I guess thats what the BIG question is?