Those likes and dislikes get sorted out in their own due time. It's not as if two potential lovers make their first date at a restaurant where instead of a Mariachi band coming to their table, two scribes in 12th century tights saunter up and take their turns saying, "hear ye, hear ye, hear ye... person of the fairer, (or caveman) persuasion would like it known to ye the following: He (She) does not entertain stone fruit in the kitchen basket, sock drying racks hung over toilet ceilings (because farts are an untapped source of hot air) or double digit penetration without at least 2 hours of coaxing and pretend argument lovemaking with added cuddle and salami sandwich run,...Non-negotiable. Do both of you take this other person as a potential mate knowing full well that it could end at any given second if the wrong move or word is said? Say yay or nay?."