Listen man, gigabitch is right. You owe it to yourself to be honest about this. You don't need to be in a relationship right now. If weight is your issue with yourself do something about it. When I was 280 lbs I hated myself and it probably came across to the various women I was around. Women can smell insecurity a mile away, no no, make that two miles away. If you want to lose weight fast do the Atkin's Diet. I lost 100 lbs in 6 months with no excercise. Just so I don't cross post or bore other readers with the details send me a PM and I'll give you the specifics. I'm still 180 lbs after 8 years, I work out almost every day, and damn do I feel good about myself! You can be right where I am if you try.