Do you think this is weird?

well i actually looked today piragua, and they talked from 1:30-4:00 constant. i called her and questioned her and she said she thinks its a little weird too, but she knows that he doesnt have that many friends here b/c he moved here, so she feels bad to just ignore him. she said, what am i supposed to do? ignore him? and she said fine i wont talk to ur boyfriend anymore.. and i said no i dont want that, i want u guys to talk and be good with each other, but i dont like the constant conversations here and there everyday

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Originally Posted by butterflies716 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

and i said no i dont want that, i want u guys to talk and be good with each other...

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Oops. The right answer would have been, "Thanks. I'd do the same for you."

Ah damn, Butterflies, she was calling your bluff and you should have taken her up on it. She won that round. Shit.

If this was a porn movie, it would end with a threesome.

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Oops. The right answer would have been, "Thanks. I'd do the same for you."

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well i said, i dont want to be the bad person here and have u guys not talk forever. hes my boyfriend and your my cousin and i dont want to make it awkward now to you guys when you see each other at family occasions .... i said i dont care if they say hey or have small quick conversations here and there, but every day and long hours are weird to me. now my boyfriend is saying to me, you need to trust us that we would never do anything with each other, it was slow at work and ive been texting my cousin, my brother, not just her, but like 4 other people. my cell phone broke and its been 2 weeks since ive had one, and he said if i had a cell phone then he would be talking to me all day too

lol vincenzo..i said that b4 to my friend... geeze he might as well be dating us at the same time, cuz he talked to her more than he talked to me today.

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Originally Posted by butterflies716 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

now my boyfriend is saying to me, you need to trust us that we would never do anything with each other

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If he's telling you this, he's been thinking it. He didn't say "Her? Oh hell no!" and why is it "Trust US, and WE would never do anything", not "Trust ME"? That says a lot about his mindset about her. He identifies himself as a team with her. I'm sorry but it sounds to me that your cousin wants to steal your BF and your BF wants to be stolen. I think you need to tell him to break off from her. If he won't then you know the answer for who he prefers. Consider dumping him.

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now my boyfriend is saying to me, you need to trust us that we would never do anything with each other, it was slow at work and ive been texting my cousin, my brother, not just her, but like 4 other people....

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I see. So he calls everyone else except you and prefers to chat with others, over his gf?

Nothing wrong in him chatting to others of course, but it seems he's discluding you and in favour of your female cousin.

I'd expect a partner to want to call me first, rather than choose to call my female cousin.

He likes her and is viewing her, as more than an extended family relative...end of.

He must think you were born yesterday.

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Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

If he's telling you this, he's been thinking it. He didn't say "Her? Oh hell no!" and why is it "Trust US, and WE would never do anything", not "Trust ME"? That says a lot about his mindset about her. He identifies himself as a team with her. I'm sorry but it sounds to me that your cousin wants to steal your BF and your BF wants to be stolen. I think you need to tell him to break off from her. If he won't then you know the answer for who he prefers. Consider dumping him.

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Well spotted :)

well he said say u should trust her shes ur cousin and me..he said both, but i see what ur saying.. and xxazurexx, i totally agree..well he texted other people, i dont get my phone for another week cuz it broke and i havent had one for 2 weeks, and he said, if u had a phone i would text u all day... hes saying now that he feels so uncomfortable now cuz of the "big deal" im making.. and that he wont ever text her again

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Originally Posted by Piragua [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Vashti and everyone else on this topic need to relax. Sometimes cigars are just cigars.

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You are clearly stupid.

I have to say that I agree with all the others, stop that realtionship straight away. I did the mistake of moving in with somebody I had mixed feelings with and I can tell you. it's a waste of time.

its just so hard because shes my cousin, and me and him live together, so its impossible for them to even get together and hook up. its just the texting that bothers me. but then i can think, well if they wanted to say something to eachother, wouldnt they just call each other up instead of texting? but, texting is much more flirty than talking to each other on the phone..thats y i dont like it. i told my male cousin who is her brother to try and look @ her phone texts when shes not around to see what they are saying to each other. he tells me that she never deletes her texts, so if shes deleting his too, than its gunna look really fishy. i just dont get how he doesnt understand what the big deal is. i talked to 6 people already about this and they all think its odd to be talking that much together. he makes me feel like the guilty one saying, "youre crazy, im with you, youre strange, you should trust ur cousin la la la"

I have to say, from an outsider point of you, I agree with the fact that it is fishy, I mean, why doesn't he just tell you out straight what he's telling her? And why delete the messages, I mean either you are together or you're not. I tell you one thing, my ex was talking and texting with a girl and he even changed his passwords to certain accounts so I wouldn't access them. Funnily enough as soon as I'd dumped him, he was with her, and when we were together he wondered why I was dubious. All that secret texting is flirty and is definitelynot going in the right direction.

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Originally Posted by butterflies716 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

its just so hard because shes my cousin, and me and him live together, so its impossible for them to even get together and hook up. its just the texting that bothers me. but then i can think, well if they wanted to say something to eachother, wouldnt they just call each other up instead of texting? but, texting is much more flirty than talking to each other on the phone..thats y i dont like it. i told my male cousin who is her brother to try and look @ her phone texts when shes not around to see what they are saying to each other. he tells me that she never deletes her texts, so if shes deleting his too, than its gunna look really fishy. i just dont get how he doesnt understand what the big deal is. i talked to 6 people already about this and they all think its odd to be talking that much together. he makes me feel like the guilty one saying, "youre crazy, im with you, youre strange, you should trust ur cousin la la la"

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If people want to hook up, trust me they find a way.