They've actually been reasonably gentle. You should see how we treat cheaters. Shreds of torn flesh all over the forum.
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They've actually been reasonably gentle. You should see how we treat cheaters. Shreds of torn flesh all over the forum.
It hurts b/c you know its how you've been acting. But its not who you want to be, which is why you came here for advice. So. Stop being those things. Next time he contacts you, tell yourself "no, I won't be this guy's toy. I deserve better than this." Then go out and find it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ariea [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You won't be able to change him, btw. So don't even bother going there. If you DO have that tendency, and I think you just might, please have a read of this thread:
[url]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/26633-description-shining-knight-syndrome.html[/url]
Its worded for guys but its also common for women to become a 'rescuer' in order for her to avoid working on her own self-esteem. Try to realize that the reason you tolerate this guys bad behaviour is b/c there is something in you that doesn't want to believe you deserve better. Or are afraid to go out and get it. Or something else like. Cut off contact with this guy and spend some time looking into your bellybutton as to why you cling to this loser psuedo-BF.
I apologize if I sound hurting. especially since we don't know each other. but sometimes, people do need a little tough love now and then. If you said you've endured a lot of harsh criticisms, does that not translate to you not listening to sound advice?Quote:
Originally Posted by Ariea [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No, I meant from the bf and his friends.Quote:
Originally Posted by nerdy_guy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The difference of name calling between me and your bf's friends? I care, they belittle.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ariea [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So, are you dumping him already, or what?