I beg your pardon... But that was horribly rude. You picked out all of the cons in my post (some even twisted out of context), and then implied that I was stating them in his DEFENSE? No, friend, I acknowledge that he was once a horrible, horrible husband. However to ME, has been an excellent boyfriend. My fear is that the excellence would fade, not that it was feigned.
And what makes you think I was a 'crotch' when he has been faithful to me for a year, we now live together and are committed to one another? You're right -- I did find out the truth of their marriage -- 4 months after knowing him and 3 months after dating him. By then it was over, whether I stepped out of the situation or not.
I came her for advice, counseling and empathy. I am a genuine person, a nice person with feelings and aforementioned regret for his ex-wife who, initially, I didn't even know existed! So please, don't berate me, not when I'm trying to ask for help. Even though I was able to outline the majority of our relationship, I cannot possibly divulge the entire dynamic to you. You, on the other hand, cannot seem to break free of the preconceived notion of the "other woman." You're reply buys into a stereotype that simply does not correlate with my relationship, and it was in extremely poor taste to kick someone who's already feeling a bit down. Congratulations on being a complete asshole.