Not taking her feelings seriously.... or not?

According to her, I should have taken her feelings into consideration and have gotten them dressed because I know it hurts her.

Because of the porn thing so long ago, she has been wanting me to prove myself to her. I can definatly understand this. I agreed not to play any video games or watch any movies with "questionable" material in it. Then after a little while, I start to feel uncomfortable with this idea... and start to "whine" about not being able to do the things I like to do. (I've told her many times I play games and watch movies, not for that content, but for the entertainment aspect) She just see's it as a way to escape life.

I can be aloof sometimes. I'm a quiet guy around everyone, just not her, but when we are close and there is no bitterness between each of us, I do cuddle her, kiss her, give backrubs, tell her how sexy she is to me. I find it very hard to do these things, when ever I feel any kind of tension in her that I feel is towards me.

She wants me to prove to her that 1. I take her feelings into consideration. 2. She can trust me. 3. That she deserves to be happy. 4. That I can make her happy.

I think this really comes down to trust. She thinks because I want to do these things, that I put my own feelings and wants and needs, before hers, which perhaps I do, or is it insane to "bow" to every request she wants? It really seems not that everytime we get into a fight about anything, that it's because "I don't take her feelings into consideration".
She said we need to compromise. I agreed not to watch any R rated movie without her screening it first in turn for video games. But she gets PO'd at me for playing a game. I don't know if I really am being an inconsiderate "pr1ck" like she says, or if I'm just trying to "stand up" for myself.