^^^i love posts that are short and sweet like that...too bad i'm horrible at it ;)
i'd still personally just end it, because i think she's treated you bad enough. but if you really want to try to make it work, damn's advice is pretty solid.
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^^^i love posts that are short and sweet like that...too bad i'm horrible at it ;)
i'd still personally just end it, because i think she's treated you bad enough. but if you really want to try to make it work, damn's advice is pretty solid.
Im sorry to hear such sadness. This must be painful. But I think it's a blessing in disguise.
You found the truth before you had children with her. You learned to forgive, but you shouldn't trust her anymore.
If her heart is with someone else, why torture yourself? There is no turning back. Marriages don't survive after such betrayal.
You need to divorce her. Sorry.
I agree with Azure on this one. Forgiving the act of cheating is not the same as trusting again. When you say that you couldn't hug her for longer than 5 minutes I think it's a good indication as to which way the relationship from here might go even if the two of you decide to stay. This will be a very a difficult decision either way, but if the two of you don't have kids together the question is, is it really worth it?Quote:
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I had a cheating ex that I forgave time and time again because he promised he loved me and that he would change. They never change.
You will never be able to trust her once a a cheat always a cheat