So....I went online to view her phone logs. I felt bad doing that but I felt compelled...Saw texting every single day last few months. She pursued him heavily. Gave him acupressure to help him out and he gave her neck massages. She said loved him casually, like 'love u too xoxo'. Texting him at 10pm often, saying 'sweet dreams' Constant requests from her to him asking him to play golf. I think I've had my fill of trash texting. I've convinced myself to end this. good luck to everyone here!