Originally Posted by
vertical_sky
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I agree she needs to calm down and control her insecurities a little, but dude that is harsh.
Most women feel really insecure when they compare themselves with the beautiful actresses/models/porn stars/etc. These women put forward an unrealistic ideal of beauty (spending eight hours at the gym to get that sculpted butt every day, air brushing, etc.) and yet SOME guys buy into the idea that THAT is what is attractive and actual reality (that she's got a bit of a stomach or some cellulite) is unattractive and the woman's fault.
You're blaming the OP for being ugly instead of questioning if the guy has unattainable expectations of attractiveness.
I think most women worry about this to a small degree, yes, even the beautiful ones, because there's always someone more beautiful and some guys can be very insensitive about how they treat their girlfriend.
I don't think the problem is the bf likes beautiful women... I think the problem is he doesn't make his girlfriend feel like she stacks up against beautiful women.