My Girlfriend has been with alot of guys. advice?

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Originally Posted by queenslandspida [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Bro

This sort of shite pisses every guy off! We all hate that our gf have slept with more than a few guys and we hate it even more if they were one night stands. Every guys like to have a gf who has slept with only a few, if any, guys and even then, they were nice nerdy guys who were totally inferior to you in everyway. it is is that latter bit that is the main problem, you my friend have an issue with the thought that these guys were better than you, they had bigger dicks, better in bed better looking everything...and guess what ITS NORMAL to be like that, because every guys is!! we hate it!

now then, a mans prejudice to their gf's number of partners is all down to our morals and social upbringing. looks at tito ortiz...his gf is a porn star jenna jameson, who has made more cocks that a second hand dart board. do you see him crying? hell no! i bet he gets off on it! and there is nothing wrong in that either!

what you are feeling is totally normal! it doesnt matter if its one guys she has been with or 100, it is society and your own morals which will be the discriminating factor. if you like her, believe me, it really does not matter.

she is less likely to go out and 'try' other guys, because she knows the score! some gfs who have not had much experience desire other guys so much due to their lack of sex that it ends relationships. and finally, this is most important, if she is a bitch, she will be a bitch and will hurt you...this has nothing to do with numbers. ive had gfs who have had few guys but have turned out to be complete bitches! ive had gfs who have been with loads of guys, 30 (and thats what she told me) who have been amazing wonderful gfs.

its normal how you feel, but you have got to get over yourself. be more confident! is she has been with 26 guys and is still staying with you, dont you think that means something?!...you are clearly lovely in her eyes and a stallion in the bedroom! YOU DA MAN! and dont let anyone tell you otherwise!

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Talk for yourself. I personally had no problems with any of my exes having had sex with others, or having had sex with many. It hasn't bothered me when I was told that this one guy had a huge dick. It hasn't bothered me when I was told that my oral techniques could use some improving. Just stop being so insecure and it wouldn't bother you either.

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Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Did I read it wrong? Where is it said that she lied?

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I said she should have lied, ie. not told him the truth about the amount of people she has slept with.

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Originally Posted by qwertz [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I said she should have lied, ie. not told him the truth about the amount of people she has slept with.

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Oh LOL. Yeah perhaps, but that's not really getting anywhere. She's a slut BUT she's a slut that needs help. For her, giving a blowjob and laying down is the equivilant of love and being liked. That's not healthy.

Cheers for the replies guys. She is getting help for her problems over her past and regrets her sexual past aswell. Girl68 you are right when you say that laying down was the equivilant of love and being liked.
For me its not a insecure thing. I dont feel intimadated at all about not sizing up or anything its the simple fact that shes had alot and I cant get that number out of my head.
Im not sure I can be with the the group bike.
I realise that if Im to get over it I cant keep bringing it up

continue to praise her for getting help regardless of wheather you stay with her.