What about a girl friend with benefits; is it an option?
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What about a girl friend with benefits; is it an option?
This is so bad.Quote:
Originally Posted by confused2207 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
ok thanks for all replies now maybe some of u didn't read my other reply or maybe i didn't make it clear i already said im going to stop and let it go however i will have to see her a few times this week theres somethings we already planned not just me and her but also my friends and i can't cancel it after this week i will still have to see her once a week at work i can't avoid that either other than that im going to cut all contract no more texting calling and no more hanging out outside work
now what im wondering is should i tell her why im going to stop talking to her? should i tell her if she doesn't want to take it to next level then i won't even be her friend because its too late for that
Everybody needs a kick in the nuts we don't soften the situation the truth is the truth, plenty of more fish in the sea go find someone who wants to be with you.Quote:
Originally Posted by confused2207 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
*SIGH* Are you for real? No! Just blow her off like she did you. You owe each other nothingQuote:
now what im wondering is should i tell her why im going to stop talking to her?
Why do you say thatQuote:
Originally Posted by Mathias [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
What about simply asking her if she can have some of her girl friends who have a higher sex drive than her or perhaps feel they haven't been meeting their quotas, simply use you for sex so you can be a better platonic friend to her?Quote:
Originally Posted by surp [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Don't bother telling her unless she asks you directly.
Matthias, why are you such a whiny little bitch? How did what you quoted, serve my own ego? It may seem counter-intuitive, but it is an effective motivational tool, and several people have thanked me for it in private.
Sure they have, buddy.Quote:
Originally Posted by BackUpOrGetStng [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But no logical explanation of how it serves my ego? Right. I thought so.
I honestly didn't think I had to explain it to you. You can't be that dense.Quote:
Originally Posted by BackUpOrGetStng [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
There is no explanation, because it doesn't serve my ego; it's just something do when bored at work.
You don't believe I've been thanked for my advice/method, but the proof is right in front of your face. You've been posting on this forum for 3 years longer, have posted 1400 more times than me, and post in higher volume, yet have only been thanked 60 more times. On average people thank me 2.5 times more than you. Run along now.
About 90% of my posts came before we had a thanks button. I was very active back in late 2006/early 2007, then stopped for quite a while.Quote:
Originally Posted by BackUpOrGetStng [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But hey, your logic fails are funny to the rest of us, so please keep going.