Here we go..

I'm worried that if i do that it will end up not being so casual for the other person. I don't mean to sound like i'm all that, because i'm not, but you never know..:(

You stipulate that you are just too busy to commit to a relationship and just want to date casually. Not everyone is looking for a relationship hun.....communication, run with it.

Ok. I'll try that. Thanks, for taking the time to listen and advice, it really helped a bit.